What Is Your Worth?

Let Go And Move On Ecclesiastes 3 tells us their is time for everything. Such as a time to be born and a time to die; a time to cry and a time to laugh; a time to start looking and a time to stop looking; and a time to love and a time to hate. These are just a few. However these seem to be irrelevant to some. Especially when it comes to relationships. I myself have been in a few relationships. These relationships started off as being good to great to sad to what was I thinking. When it came time to move on the other party did not want to let go. I have been there and it was not an exciting situation. I have also seen relationships go horrifically bad when the other person is obsessed and they refuse to let you go regardless. Needless to say this ended up in a traumatic way. Why do people try to hold on to something that is no longer there? Are they so fearful that they would not be good enough for another relationship? Could it be that they don't want to see you with anot...

 Hello Ladies and Gents, I know that it has been a hot minute since I last posted a blog. I am going  try to make sure that a long lapse like this never happens again. I know you are wondering, "Why am I writing on this topic?' Well my topic stems from a video that was posted on Facebook from YouTube.  A lady by the name of Alexyss K.Tylor  who happens to have authored a book entitled Vagina Power. In the video clip she discusses how a man's penis controlled a lady so much to the point that she slapped him. Her reason for slapping him was due the thought of him sharing himself with someone else led her to slap him. In listening to her remarks about this she goes on to discuss that we as women can get so caught up into a guys sexual organ that we allow him to control us. As I listened to this I realized that she did have some valid points that made a lot of sense. I know that this is a topic that is shunned by most but it is a topic tha...

Ladies! Ladies! Ladies! How many times have I seen so many of you us settling for less? Do you have any idea of what power we possess as beautiful, intelligent and intriguing creatures? Somewhere down the road our potential has diminished when it comes to relationships! So many times we de-value ourselves by settling for less when we deserve better. Why is my first blog about this? I will tell you why! It disappoints me to see young ladies who are with guys "just because"!  So what is just because?  Just because is...... just because I don't want to be lonely I will settle for less; just because he pays the bills (in some cases) I will settle for less; or just because he has good game I will settle for less! I for one am not pointing fingers at anyone for I too at one time was in a relationship in which I found myself settling. I was giving so much of myself and not getting the same or more in return. Don't get me wrong, it started out great but eventually th...